waterpeach says,
I've been dating this guy since December 2008. Everything was going swell until we were going through bumps with an up and down relationship. We were constantly breaking up and getting back together 3 times in a row. So finally by September we called it quits. We would just stay friends. But since then, we've still been holding hands, hugging, kissing each other and such. All our friends ask why we're not dating. Some even think we're "secretly" dating. I don't know how to reply, I'm just waiting for his response. I've talked to his friends about this and they all say he still likes me. But what is he waiting for? Am I just wasting my time? Should I just leave him hanging like this and move on with my life? Or should I hold on for my dear little life for him? I truly love him. I've never felt so crushed and broken when someone dumped me before. I don't know what to do. What do I say? How do I act?
2010-01-14
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PollyWolly comments,
Your friends' opinions are important, because they see things objectively and they have your best interest at heart. With that said, you should ask yourself if you are really happy in this pseudo-relationship. It seems like he wants the physical access but cannot commit to a relationship with you. This brings up the question of whether or not he is actually interested in you in the same way you are interested in him. Relationship is a 2-way process. You deserve someone who can commit and who doesn't make you ask question about your relationship.
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